It's 7 Quick Takes Friday! How was your week?
The day of prom was rainy, necessitating a backup plan for taking pictures beforehand, but thanks to one-day shipping on Amazon we ordered a clear umbrella and made the best of it. The pictures actually turned out great.
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I think I have an above-average sense for framing a decent photo, but I don't have a nice camera and I don't know anything about photography. So we made it work with my son's smartphone camera and occasionally Googling "prom poses" and directing him and his girlfriend to "do this."
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For Mother's Day, the kids had me make a list of what I'd like to do after church, then they put it all into a schedule and planned the perfect day for me.
The first thing on my list was "nature walk," so we drove to a hiking trail and spent about an hour meandering through the woods. (I should have specified "nature walk with no fighting or complaining" but I forgot that part, so I guess that was on me. Lesson learned for next time.)
Unfortunately when we got back to the van, it wouldn't start.
Well, it started, but because of an ongoing sensor issue that we've spent a lot of time and money trying to repair, it wouldn't shift out of 'park' so we were stuck. We Googled for solutions, tried a few temporary fixes from random people on Reddit, and then gave up and called a tow truck.
They said they'd be a few hours so we called a friend to pick us up and bring us home, and by the time we got home there wasn't time for anything else on my Mother's Day schedule. Which is really a perfect metaphor for motherhood in general, so I'd say the day played out exactly like it was supposed to.
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The 21-year-old left for Japan! She's going to be doing a summer research internship there and we're so thrilled for her. Two of her biggest passions in life are (1) how things work and (2) learning about new languages and cultures, so this is utterly perfect for her.
She texted us when she landed, but we didn't hear from her after that for several days. We figured she was busy and jetlagged, and possibly having difficulties getting her cell phone to work in another country.
By the third day, I started to get a little concerned, even though I'm generally pretty chill about checking up on the kids (see exhibit A:)
| Text to my 17-year-old when he went out last week. |
Luckily, that day we heard from her. She texted, and then Phillip and I were able to FaceTime her and hear all about what she's doing so far. Not that I understood much of the research part. But she seemed happy.
—4—
I'm taking a four-week self-defense class right now. I've got two classes left until I become a threat to those around me. Unfortunately my wrist is still recovering slowly from a sprain and that's annoying, but I can mostly participate.
The location for class is the gym in our church, which the kids think is really weird.
"Wait, wait, wait," said my 12-year-old. "So you're learning to punch people and break their noses... at church?"
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| My mouth is open because you're supposed to yell "NO!" with every strike. |
Among other things, yes.
—5—
I saw a list on the Internet that said "Stop asking 'How was your day?' Ask these questions to get your kids to actually talk."
I've seen questions just like these before, and they have a near-zero success rate. Who knows, though, maybe this list had the magic bullet that would help me find out all about my kid's day! I chose the most promising one and decided to try it: "What's something you keep thinking about today?"
Over the course of the week, I asked three of the kids and their answers were, "What? Me? I don't know," "Uhhh... stuff?" and "Why are you asking me that? What are you doing?"
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My 17-year-old watched a baby duck rescue go down at his high school, right after he finished his AP Calculus exam. (I did not find out about this when I asked him any of the questions on the list, though.)
Some baby ducks had fallen in a storm drain behind the cafeteria. The police came and it was a whole rescue operation where they pried open the grate, climbed down on a ladder, and deposited the baby ducks in a blue recycling bin to take to wildlife management.
So I don't know, if you're having trouble getting your kids to give you details about their day after school you could always try "Did you see anything interesting in a storm drain today?"
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This is me, every day after my kids leave for school:
Unlike the lady in the video, though, it's not my husband leaving the mess. It's the four kids who still live at home. Still 100% accurate, though. (When you have a teenage boy, you still even get to make the beard trimming smiley faces.)













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